Dating Fixation......

Dating Fixation......

God made Adam and Eve.....and created infatuation between them.  This has been going ever since but with the changing times, relationships are changing so is the spectrum of the same. Infatuation, crush, liking, and admiration were the words used in our age ( just two decades back ) for such feelings. Now it has been replaced by just one word "dating." Being a mother of an adult teenager, I am in the learning process of this sweet term "dating." 

I often get the opportunity to sit with this generation. They are much more chilled out than ours. Fun loving and happy go lucky. But as I get to know them better I secretly reveal to myself that  I  am either dumb, or a fool or I have really grown old.   

Their conversation terminology - hook up, make out,  ask out and friends for benefits, etc.,  makes my head spin.  I generally remove my doubts with my sweetheart so that next time I don't look such a moron. Though she hates that I am enhancing my vocabulary on this front, but I don't mind improving my GYAAN on any front.

 Jokes apart dating is defined as a prelude to any relationship.  But for this generation "dating" is a playground of romance where hearts are won and broken at supersonic speed. 

It is a phenomenon where u wear best of perfume, most beautiful clothes, hang out for the movie , eat and drink at hip joints and make out for few days or few months and then after petty fights and few tears ---bada bing, bada boom. It's over. Time to search for a new Dating partner.

 Everything is there on this "date" thing except that most beautiful emotion "love." It can not be described that easily to this generation :). Maybe this is the in-thing, but I hope love fills the shallowness of this dating phenomenon someday.

Nevertheless happy dating for all of u :) 

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